Mary Hayes

Mary Hayes

Friday, October 4th, 1935 Wednesday, October 7th, 2020

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Obituary for Mary F. Hayes

Mary Hayes, age 85, passed away peacefully at her home in White Plains NY on October 7, 2020. She is survived by her children Nancy Manganiello, and Kelly Doherty (Jim), grandchildren Chris Doherty (Liz), Shannon Clark (Terrell), Tom Hayes (Krystal), Kelsey Delaney (Stephan), and 11 great grandchildren. Mary is also survived by her siblings Rita Denak and James Costello (Rose). Mary was predeceased by her husband of 61 years, Thomas Hayes, her son Thomas Hayes, grandson Rory Doherty, son-in-law Chris Manganiello, and siblings Josephine Murphy, June McCarthy, and Thomas Costello.

Mary was born in Staten Island NY in 1935. She graduated from St. Peter HS in 1954. She met and married the love of her life, Tom Hayes, in 1956 while working together in New York City. Mary and Tom moved to White Plains, NY where they raised their 3 children and Mary worked as a bookkeeper at CG Swackhamer Building Supplies in White Plains. Together, Mary and Tom developed a large circle of friends and had an active social life. Mary was an avid reader, loved crossword puzzles, and hunting through garage sales. Above all, Mary loved her grandchildren and great grandchildren. She took great pleasure in hosting weekly family dinners and celebrations. Mary’s family and friends will miss her greatly.

A funeral mass will be held on October 21, 2020, 11:00 am at The Church of St. Bernard, 51 Prospect Street, White Plains, NY 10606.

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  • Memorial Mass

    Wednesday, October 21st, 2020 | 11:00am
    St. Bernard's Church
    South Lexington Ave
    White Plains, NY
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    Wednesday, October 21st, 2020
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  • Interment

    Rose Hills Memorial Park
    101 Mill Street
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Jackie Longo

Dear Kelly, Jim, & Family, I am so sorry to hear about your Mom passing. She was a beautiful woman. I am so glad I had the pleasure of knowing her all these years. The angels are singing because there are now two Mimi’s in heaven. God Bless You all. With much love, Jackie
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